Micro-shifts that Transform Your Life.
Soulitude is a place where I share actionable ideas about life, leadership & parenting based on Perceptual Control Theory.
Exploring and transforming your mental models have a huge impact on your day to day life.
Boundaries and structures are especially important in times of transition. Developing a clear picture of what is actually going to be different is helpful. What is really over and what is not. Knowing the boundaries of the change brings a sense of relief and helps you feel safe.
According to Russell Barkley “You do not design your children.” He goes on to summarize the research on neuroimaging, behavior genetics, developmental psychology, and neuropsychology, “Your child is
Leading a team through a period of transition can be one of the most difficult challenges for a new leader. It is important to understand the three major contributors to morale, and how to create and
One of my favorite poems is by the Sufi poet Rumi, The Guest House. Rumi writes “This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival.” The poem captures so much of what it means to live li