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Creating Soulitude

Micro-shifts that Transform Your Life. 

Soulitude is a place where I share actionable ideas about life, leadership & parenting based on Perceptual Control Theory. 

Exploring and transforming your mental models have a huge impact on your day to day life. 


I Love a Good Cliche

As a writer I have often been told to omit cliches, to be unique, to be fresh in my writing, to be creative. Ugh, sometimes a cliche is the perfect expression for what I’m trying to say. Who would the Three Musketeers be without “All for one, and one for all.”? Or, how better to describe the role of a parent cleaning up after a sick child then. “A labor of love.”

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